I think I’ll have something to contribute in the spirit. We walk around a lot, and have a lot of mental maps of Oakland that often surprised motorists.
Oh, this is a good place to share an experience that is new to me: strangers finding me and apologizing for shouting at me from their vehicle.
Specifically, parents of children at our public school. They see our family walking around, and have this impulse to offer us a ride; unfortunately, they often spot us in the middle of traffic/intersection, or have a child yell at us from the back window. And then they “trap” me in the halls at school, where I am not allowed to run away because there is no running in the halls…
As my general policy contains the clause, “don’t let people distract you from surviving cars”, I ignore them. As I remind each of them in turn, “I don’t respond to strangers shouting at me from their cars”.
That is a fascinating thing I’ve observed, but I am reminded of it now as they often also include some weird praise for walking the kid to school, admit they could never do it, or anything, without a car, and they wonder how we do it, even though we often show up across town before they do, on foot…
I just smirk, because motorists don’t know that Oakland is covered in wild walks and hidden staircases and library boxes! We habitually walk next to turkeys. Literal turkeys. They shout at tech workers lining up for the bus and block traffic, so they are doing their part!
I also just smirk because I don’t know how to handle the confessions of people that obviously want human interaction so much they’d scream from a moving vehicle at a complete stranger… it isn’t really my place to apologize, so following in line with my plan to model the awesome reality for others, I’d say documenting the weird and wonderful stomper-space of Oakland would be an appropriate guide/response. 